FREEDOM Matters… For Everybody!! – Grayed Out Podcast EP 12

EP 12 – FREEDOM MATTERS – For Everyone

Tonight is the First WEEKNIGHT of FREEDOM WEEK!!! Why is it FREEDOM WEEK! Because this Saturday is the 4th of July 2020 and we need to celebrate a little something to get our heads around all the FUSTERCLUCK this year has been so far!!!

I plan to Freedom so hard this week. So I thought I’d start with talking about this ideal of FREEDOM which actually brings us TOGETHER!! And why it MATTERS FOR EVERYONE and why when Freedoms start to be infringed upon because of the opinions, offended-ness, or subjectivity of others, it is a downward spiral that we will be hard pressed to recover from.

FREEDOMS = Life Liberty & The Pursuit of Happiness This IDEAL is something to strive for for everyone, this is why we had the Gettysburg Address in November 1863: https://rmc.library.cornell.edu/gettysburg/good_cause/transcript.htm#:~:text=President%20Lincoln%20delivered%20the%20272,all%20men%20are%20created%20equal
FREEDOM: It Costs, but it’s worth it, it gives more back, and it unites!

HARD TRUTHS
WE owe it to one another as United States citizens to contend side by side for one another’s freedoms, So this week, lets focus not on the scars of the past but what they have taught all of us and the road they have paved forward!!

As always, I’d love any feedback.

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Police Reform & Partisan Games, or, Why We Should Read Stuff – Grayed Out Podcast EP 11

 

Ep 11: Police Reform & Partisan Games, or, Why We Should Read Stuff

This is a Great SPRINGBOARD from earlier this week and VILLAINS… because right now there are plenty to choose from. Ok that’s dramatic, but I’m a little miffed. A couple of Instagram & Facebook Live videos later and hopefully you know where I’m coming from and hopefully this makes a ton of sense…

SENATE Bill v. HOUSE Bill – semantically the same, however some tighter and looser restrictions in both could be brought to the middle BUT… and that is one BIG BUT!!!.. Leave it to one side to frame it so that the other is all bad, and they are all good and let the press do the rest!

HOW IT WENT DOWN>> albeit, I’m confused by the Democrats on this one…

READ THE BILLS and you find the truth about the language and the vast similarities… but the politicians are COUNTING on it that you don’t and that you just want to hear from them that your side is better and that’s the whole truth… but it isn’t. LoadsofRubbish.com

HARD TRUTHS
What keeps you from reading the legislation that goes up for debate in our country… at least the MAJOR stuff?

Make the time, it’s valuable and will help you see through the haze of media and political smoke screens.

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Base Names, Statues, Cartoons & The Losing Side of Symbolic Victory – Grayed Out Podcast EP 9

 

Ep 9: Base Names, Statues, Cartoons & The Losing Side of Symbolic Victory…

THIS TIME AROUND… I’M KIND OF TAKING A SIDE… but not the way one would expect and hopefully in a way that makes, as Arsenio used to say, go hmm….

SYMBOLIC VICTORY – There are symbolic victories throughout history that have turned out to be just that, and came before the overall demise of the winner. WW2 gave us some prime examples just to point in a general direction.

Here is why I bring this up.

Changing names of Military Installations, Tearing down statues, and banning cartoons or tv shows… are not REAL HELP, they are merely symbolic.

You might be wondering why that is an issue and how am I being politically homeless on this? Let me explain… well let me sum up.
HARD TRUTHS

CHANGES COST BIG MONEY – bigger than you’d expect. (grave 3K)
Legal battles to those changes = BIGGER MONEY

Who bears that cost and what does it actually buy us???

Racism in America: A Citizen’s Summit – video link:  https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=2318213695151332

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Defending Trump & Other Troubling Matters – Grayed Out Podcast EP 8

Ep 8: Defending Trump & Other Troubling Matters

Do you know what it’s like to have to defend something or someone that you’re not exactly a big fan of? I mean just try and get a non-Patriots fan to admit that Tom Brady may be the GOAT and you’ll see. It’s painful if not near impossible… but remember the analogy… our elected leaders are not a football team or player.

With the political divide being as prevalent as it is, large as it has ever been, and seemingly only getting worse. It’s maddening to see when people cannot be honest even when they dislike a politician or platform.

Because of this I have had to come out in defense of President Trump over the idiocy of the “Orange Man Bad” mindset that limits peoples reasonable response to anything good that may come from the current administration…

NOW I understand that the list of issues that our POTUS has, is long and distinguished. He’s a bloviator, ego driven, narcissistic, but really what can you expect from someone who was raised to think he was the most important person in any room. So there is enough there, but people want to drive the point home so badly they begin exaggerating the small things and then it just gets weird.

Beyond that support or rejection of Trump now leads people to be fired from jobs, lose friends, treat family poorly, and turns civil discourse into frothing at the mouth diatribes over all the bad the orange man has done… But there is good and bad, and when we can be adult enough to recognize, then we are ready for the kind of discussion that can bring about change.

The good and the bad…
MAGA loves “The Black People” : https://youtu.be/kB2m8KM07B8
First Step Act impact: https://youtu.be/EB7cSE_ieys

HBCU Funding: https://youtu.be/FrqfIkkUMx8

Disinfectant: https://youtu.be/33QdTOyXz3w

Corona Virus Timeline: https://youtu.be/RTGBJMDcras

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Disagreement Does Not A Racist Make – Grayed Out Podcast EP 7

 

Ep 7: Disagreement Does Not A Racist Make

This episode deals with the importance of Dialogue, Disagreement & Dissent in figuring out solutions to our societal issues, present situation especially…

There is a cultural wave happening where disagreement or dissent is becoming the catalyst for labeling people as “ISTS” or “PHOBES”

This has always been an issue but with the national spotlight hyper-focused on the current issue of injustice/racial tensions… it has found another gear and seems to be getting a little out of control.

The crowds of people in harried desire to be helpful and appear as allies are starting to label people as racists for not getting onboard with their “very clearly” superior morally righteous ideas and “solutions”

And in some cases there are people losing jobs (https://twitter.com/brokebackUSA/status/1270096112666492928) , livelihoods, relationships and in extreme cases could be in real danger.
Doxxing Examples:
https://www.theverge.com/2020/1/31/21117663/twitter-zero-hedge-suspended-platform-manipulation-policy-doxxing-coronavirus

What Is Doxxing? 5 Examples of Doxxing and How to Prevent It

Which is completely ironic and in some cases completely hypocritical.

This is a problem that exists on both sides of the political sphere and is just a fear driven tactic to drive wedges, create fear, and demand agreement.

The only people that can change that are us, the voices in the middle or leaning toward the middle, willing to say to the fear peddlers… nope we are not buying today, and we are going to stand for something right and better.

How are we supposed to find solutions that actually work if meaningful disagreement and dissent are not allowed and processed along the way and further, those things are punished with outright labels and more hatred?

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What Are We Even Thinking? – Grayed Out Podcast EP 6

 

Ep 6: WHAT Are We Even Thinking?

This episode deals with the continued national narrative surrounding the protests and riots as a result of the death of George Floyd.

This has continued to be a heavy week and my emotions and thoughts are a bit scatters for this episode but bear with me. I’m finding that there is serious frustration in actual voicing opinions from the middle and the louder I get, the more people misunderstand and say I’m spouting or spinning for whatever side is opposite them. I’m overwhelmed

I’m sharing thoughts on Defunding/Abolishing the police around the nation and also how sharing outdated and half true videos is not helpful.

Tupelo Mississipi Video:
There are two takes on this and I couldn’t find the original whole video other than on Terrence K. Williams (conservative comic/pundit) facebook channel (so you may need to divorce the commentary from the actual video) https://www.facebook.com/terrencekwilliams/videos/357730235212354/?
Here is the take from black podcast/vlog host Roland Martin and a panel he hosted on the matter: https://youtu.be/XzZYv8_3EKA

Bellvue Washington Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ooTLdj_L2U
This is a response to the recirculation of the video of this. The result being the full suspension of choke holds.

There are also a few scattered thoughts about media coverage etc.

We don’t need revolution we need serious REFORM.

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Racism & The Middle: Raw & Uncut (sorta) – Grayed Out Podcast Ep. 5

 

This episode deals with Racism & The Middle: Raw & Uncut

I realize this may be a sensitive subject, but I want to make sure that I do both what I can to speak out against injustice, and also to make sure that people from both sides can understand a few different perspectives and raw realities.

First let me caveat this:
I know that as a white man, this is going to generate mixed responses, and some will think I have NO BUSINESS talking about this and some will think I have NO BUSINESS staying silent. Some will say I have no real understanding, and hopefully I can offer some thoughts, that may cause some people to think, some to understand, and some to heal.

As a man who was raised in San Francisco’s East Bay, home to cities, like Oakland, Richmond, El Cerrito, San Pablo, Rodeo, Hercules, and my hometown of Pinole, I had the advantage of ALWAYS being in school with a vast array of ethnicities, and we experienced a different kind of upbringing that said all those people we were growing up with were our people, our community, our classmates and most importantly our friends. But that doesn’t mean we didn’t have our struggles, tonight I’m going to tell a short story about a struggle, and a dumb kid, who did a stupid thing… and the amazing way that the situation ended… hopefully to begin a dialogue about all of us, our combined humanity and how things need to go to move forward, in my humble, but really honest to the point of raw, opinion

No links this time around… everything you are hearing about either happened in the stone ages of no cell phones/personal video cameras or is right in your face every day.

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